9/29/2016

If marriage is a fiction, divorce become the reality.


You are all different in your being.
Every human has a unique identity of Ego ( I ), beliefs,intellect and self conscience.

If marriage is a fiction, divorce become  the reality.

Because people marry for a wrong reason, they have to get divorced for a right reason.

Why do people get married ?

Why do people  get divorced or not divorced in a bad situation but carry a  tragic life forwards.

Nelson Mandela  and Winnie remained  as couple for long 38 years.

But  Nelson Mandela was in Jail for 27 years. Two years after his release from jail he divorced his wife  and re-married. Their marriage survived 27 years of separation, but not more than two years of reunion.

Recently Brad Pit and Angelina Jolie  separated after two years of married life.

Why do people marry ? to establish the institution of  family.and feel at home together.

When the feel @ home  fails the marriage fails.

"Being  at home"  is an illusion that  can not be  realized by normal human being.

Because human being itself is an illusion. creating ever new illusions.

Because old illusions (happiness)  have no value in an already  personal illusion.

Either the person should get out of the illusion or the person should stop searching new illusions.

In any marriage, both options seem difficult and the couple has to carry on even if it is a tragedy with artificial shows of joy. until they realize the truth of love and care.

If you marry for the wrong reason you have to divorce for the right reason within the illusion.called " I am"